One of the topics the Omaha couple discussed in premarital counseling before their July wedding was what they would do each year when Iowa and Nebraska play their annual football game.
Their counselor — and Jessica swears she's not joking — recommended that they go separate ways that day. That means Greg and Jessica will go to different parties when the game is in Lincoln, and Greg will leave Jessica at home when he goes to Iowa City to watch the game in person.
They have another agreement, too.
"We won't talk about it afterward," Jessica said. "No taunting allowed."
Greg and Jessica's bliss will be tested Friday when the Hawkeyes (7-4, 4-3 Big Ten) visit the Huskers (8-3, 4-3) for the start of what figures to be a natural rivalry between two teams from states separated by the Missouri River.
The rivalry is more about the fans now. The teams have met 42 times but share no recent history. They played almost every year between 1930-46 and not again until 1979. There were six meetings between then and 2000.
The Hawkeyes have only two native Nebraskans on their roster; the Huskers have no Iowans, though injured tight end Ben Cotton went to high school in Ames, Iowa.
Nebraska safety Austin Cassidy said the series has the potential to become a big rivalry, bigger than previous annual games against Colorado, Kansas State and Kansas. That will be especially true, he said, if the game decides the Legends Division title on a regular basis.
As it is, the game will give bragging rights to Iowa or Nebraska fans, especially those who have to mix with each other in eastern Nebraska and western Iowa.
"There's a lot of trash talk, and it's been going on forever," said Wendy Bettin, who owns Maloney's Irish Pub, a Hawkeyes bar in Omaha. "It's been a rivalry since the beginning, and it'll be nice to have some closure on who is the better team."
Bettin said she expects 100 people, Huskers and Hawkeyes fans alike, to crowd into her bar for Friday's game, and she's hiring a couple security guards.
"We do have some people who get kind of heated in their discussions," she said, "and I just want to make sure, whoever wins or whoever loses, nothing gets out of hand."
Larry Ross, longtime owner of the Seneca Street Saloon in Webster City, Iowa, said a few Nebraska fans pop into his establishment from time to time, but most of his patrons don't like the Big Red. Last week, customers watching TV relished the way Michigan hammered Nebraska and the way Iowa handled Purdue.
"A lot of Iowa fans say Nebraska isn't going to just come over here to the Big Ten and think they're the best team out there," Ross said. "Iowa fans say Nebraska is just going to be another team — sort of what they are."
Ross said a lot of folks in Iowa have nothing against Nebraska's players and coaches. It's the Nebraska fans incessantly reminding them about the Huskers' 5-0 edge in national championships that wears thin.